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10 unique ways to tell the man who takes your breath away that you LOVE him without saying a word

Posted July 1

Saying I love you is important, but sometimes it becomes second nature. We say I love you so often that it can lose some meaning. Sometimes we need to show someone we love them without saying the words! Here are some unique ways to tell him you love him with your actions instead of words.

1. Kiss him

I’m not talking a peck on the lips that becomes so routine you hardly notice, but a real kiss. Take time and really feel it. Linger.

2. Surprise him with a guy date

Instead of dressing up and doing the whole dinner and a movie routine, go outside and toss a football or grill up some burgers. Do something that he likes to do especially if you don’t normally do that together.

3. Cook his favorite meal

If you’re more of a quick and easy type of cook, spend some time making his favorite meal one night. The time and effort will mean a lot to him.

4. Play video games

By engaging in an activity that he likes, it shows you are willing to sacrifice your wants over his. Something as simple as playing his favorite video game with him speaks volumes, without saying a word.

5. Wear his favorite outfit

Most women have that one outfit in their closet that really turns their guy on. You may hate it, but wear it anyway, because he loves it.

6. Learn about something he is interested in

Is there a sport he loves, or perhaps a certain genre of movie that you just don’t get? Does he have a favorite band? Whatever it is, take interest in it. Learn about it and surprise him with your new knowledge.

7. Be spontaneous

Nothing is more exciting than going on a last-minute road trip. Or, try something smaller like showing up unexpectedly to his work for lunch. Being spontaneous is a great way to mix up your everyday routine and put some excitement in your relationship.

8. Send him a flirty text

Instead of sending the same “love you” text, really put some thought into it. Try not to say I love you, but rather something more romantic or sweet. Express what it is that you find attractive and why he is perfect for you.

9. Play hooky

Take a day to just skip all responsibility. Skip work, cancel your obligations and just hang out together. You can go out for the day or just stay home and chill. Being willing to give up your plans to spend time with him shows just how much you love him.

10. Try something new

Sometimes trying something new is a great way to strengthen your bond as a couple. Learning together challenges you and helps you grow together. Try a class, join a club or explore a new area in your state. Trying something new helps keep you on your toes and have fun as a couple.

All of these are simple, yet thoughtful ideas that can really show your man that you love him. Actions speak louder than words sometimes, so make sure you mix it up and show your love instead of just saying it!

Megan Shauri graduated with a bachelors in Anthropology and a masters in Psychology. She lives in Orange County, CA and is a mother of twins. Contact her at Meganshauri@gmail.com

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