banner
Family

10 things men only do when they're completely in love

Posted July 31

Men can have a hard time expressing their feelings sometimes, but you should never have to wonder if he’s really in love with you. Your mister’s actions can tell you a lot about how he's feeling.

If he does at least a few things on this list, you can be sure he is completely in love with you:

1. He listens to you

When your man is totally in love, he could listen to you talk forever. He loves to hear about your day, the funny things that happened to you and your deep thoughts and concerns. He’ll engage in the conversation and give sound advice when you ask for it, and he looks forward to your conversations every day.

2. He puts in extra effort

Maybe you notice he’s doing little things that are out of the norm for him. Maybe he filled up your gas tank, left you a love note in your car or washed all the dishes while you were out and about. They may be little, but he’ll do whatever it takes to make you happy. He doesn’t need recognition for his extra effort because he’s happy to do it, but a “thank you” would probably be appreciated.

3. He remembers the small things

He remembers the little details of your life and your life together. He remembers anniversaries and significant dates (even if he has to set a reminder in his phone). He remembers all your favorite foods, the songs you love and your favorite colors. The fact that he remembers these things (or makes an effort to) proves he’s absolutely in love with you.

4. Your happiness is his priority

His most important goal in life is to make you happy. Your man loves to see you smile and he hates seeing you sad, so he’s going to do everything he can to make sure you’re loving life.

5. He’s not afraid to argue

He wants what’s best for you and you want what’s best for him, but sometimes those views don’t line up and arguments happen. A man who really loves you will fight with you, because you’re worth it.

He will always fight the important battles and avoid the insignificant ones because he loves you and wants to be on the same page.

6. He cares about your family

He knows how important your family is to you, so they’re going to be important to him, too. If he makes a special effort to get to know your family members and close friends, he truly cares about you.

7. He trusts you

He feels like he can tell you anything, and he knows you’ll always be someone he can pour his heart out to. He trusts you to keep these secrets private. Because you two are so comfortable together, he can ask you to do important favors for him because he just knows you’ll do them. He would do the same for you.

8. He does the chores he knows you hate

I absolutely hate doing the dishes, so my sweet husband does them every day while I do the chores my husband doesn’t like to do. If he’s willing to do the things you hate doing, he loves and cares about you so much.

9. He’s completely honest

Your man would NEVER lie to you, even if it was just a small white lie. He knows you deserve the truth, no matter how hard it might be to take. You can be confident that he will always tell the truth, so you don’t have to question anything he tells you.

10. He respects you

If your man really loves you, he respects you. He respects your space, your wishes, your friendships and everything else that makes up who you are. He loves every part of you, and knows you’re an amazing person who deserves all the respect in the world.

If you find a man like this, never let him go. Share this with your sweetheart to let them know how much you love and appreciate them.

Comments

Please with your WRAL.com account to comment on this story. You also will need a Facebook account to comment.

Oldest First
View all